Tris and Rue
"Sea witch" 10k pearl toi et moi ring with yin and yang contrast colors (vintage, only one available)
"Sea witch" 10k pearl toi et moi ring with yin and yang contrast colors (vintage, only one available)
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The vintage toi et moi pearl ring is the definition of sweet. It is set with two contrasting pearls, and has a very nice well-made setting. Toi et moi rings carry many meanings. Perhaps our favorite is its symbolism of partnership or "you and me" as it translates. The yin and yang contrasting pearls can also represent the balance between light and darkness. It’s currently a size 6.25 and easily sizable, crafted of solid 10k gold with patina that can only be achieved with time.
Note: This item is vintage and is likely one-of-a-kind. Once it's sold, it's gone, which makes it all the more special. Add to cart to make it yours!
Why we love it
Toi et moi rings symbolize a promise of partnership, unconditional love, and also a remembrance of affection. With the white and black pearl, it could also be a representation of the duality of light and dark within yourself. This would make such a sweet gift to a partner or family member.
Details
- crafted of solid 10k gold
- size 6.25 and sizable, DM us on Instagram (trisandrue) for sizing
- a durable 3.4g
- in overall good condition with minimal wear commensurate with being a preowned piece
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Note: Layaway can be done through Shop Pay or DM us on Instagram (trisandrue) for a longer manual layaway through venmo/ paypal/ zelle/ wise. If the website shows the item as Out of Stock, fret not! Please send us a direct message through Instagram (trisandrue).
Disclaimer
All measurements are approximate. Boxes used to showcase the piece are not included in the sale. This listing is only for the ring itself. Item may appear larger in photos. Item color may vary due to lighting in photos or variation in metals.

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